Wednesday, November 3, 2010

Why do 'men' seek the services of prostitutes?

Why is it such a taboo subject? As someone said to me to day, when your car breaks down, you seek the services of a professional mechanic to fix it, so why not seek the professional services of a prostitute when your sexual activity frequency has broken down? So what is so wrong with that?

Is it only us fellow women that it makes feel squirmish and disrespected, or do some men feel the same. Are there only a requirement for this profession because of the men who already use this service, or do prostitutes actually like their jobs? Do they not feel degraded at all?

Who uses the services of Prostitutes? The types of men we all hear about: Men who are unfaithful, single men who want some love and attention, men who have a lot of money, men who want some 'no strings attached' fun. But have we ever really thought about WHY? Could it be because we women are so high maintenance these days? Are we women who must be cared for by a man and seen as otherwise helpless in life? Always needing attention and demanding the security of our man? While a lot of us will see this as an exaggeration, thanks to the old fashioned ways of the world and publications such as "The Good Wife's Guide", society has conditioned men to believe that this is true, making their relationships suffer when it comes to a man who wishes to have his needs met.

What does a prostitute do? A prostitute acts as a slave to a man’s needs. An actress, although to the man, he doesn't care that what he is receiving for his money is a one-sided play and an act that he gets to be nothing but a prop in. This is the man’s time to shine and get whatever erotic behaviour he has in mind – no questions asked, no strings attached and no need to reciprocate. A prostitute is sought out when a man wishes to let go and selfishly indulge in his desires without having to give anything back to the woman who performs for him.

So what it comes down to is a weakness. Men acquire prostitution because they cannot handle what is expected of them as men and want to be entirely selfish in their actions even when what society shows most women to be is false. Prostitutes are wanted by the men who don’t want to sexually please their wives or even care about her desires. He does not want to be in a relationship; instead, he wants someone who will make him look like a “family man” who cares about and loves his family so he can get a few votes from the 'boys'. He wants this while he can also go behind his wife’s back and get his needs met while constantly complaining that his wife wants too much from him.

My advise is to find a man who is strong, committed, honest and trustworthy. A man who you are comfortable enough with to know he will treat you the same, as you deserve to be treated. And a man who knows how to treat a lady right and is a real man; a real man who has no shame in showing it.